Be you

 Most of the time people are always in the habit of being negative. This is mostly happening in Sri Lanka.

Since childhood

 You can't go to school if you don't pass the scholarship. 

He is an idiot if he does not pass the GCE Ordinary Level You can not go to university

 if you don't pass A / L. You can't do a good job

 if you don't learn you can't go university 

Many parents try to send their children to dreams that they have not been able to pursue since childhood, but they do not pay attention to their children's desires and talents.

It also entrusts everything to fate, astrologers, machines, gods, and Buddhas.When everything is handed over to an invisible force and nothing can be done, people who are tired and successful are blamed.

Doing nothing until a treasure is down or a lottery is drawn, the man who says "no ,can not"  always failed .

People born poor and disabled have conquered the world .But Sri Lanka has always been a developing country because of the begging habit and laziness of Sri Lankans.

you can change this situation on his own. When you changes, others will change.Then the whole country will change.

When we can not reach a dream, we have to try to reach another dream. We have to identify ourselves and develop our abilities.Do not let one exam make your life decision. Practice trying. . Try different things until the opportunity arises.

Negative thoughts that come to a child's mind at home and at school should be avoided from an early age. They need to be able to grow independently and lead a successful life through the talents they inherit from birth.